Sometimes, we hurt each other in the name of love. Sometimes, we have memories that are curved into our heart, so that even time can not wash the memory away. We cannot forget a person, not we want to forgive. Humbert is the person who are deeply in love with a memory, so that he falls in love with Lolita. His dangerous love is one cause of the tragedy. Lolita, a girl without girlhood, whose life is destroyed by two one, in which one man even breaks her heart. However, she is happy to live with her poor husband, because she wants to forgive and embrace the future.
No one wants to have painful memories. It's blessing that we couldn't love passionately. To live, is to forget. Sometimes, being a people without past is blessing. Why we want to have forced happiness? If we can't get, drop it. Life has everything, as long as we let nature take it course.
如果我不是正好在讀這本書的時候開始養(yǎng)兔子,我恐怕不會意識到這個故事會與我本人有任何聯(lián)系。我就是Humbert Humbert,Humbert the Tenderest,無條件地愛它們,它們就是我的洛。它們就像洛,任性,惡劣,不可捉摸,有時候讓我控制不了地向它們發(fā)火,我就成了Humbert the Terrible——這樣愛恨交織的心情,Humbert Humbert,我也懂得。我又會后悔,難過,想要抱著它們,給它們安慰。但是它們在我懷里發(fā)抖,我知道它們怕我,討厭我,它們永遠不會懂得我對它們的愛——但是我卻不管不顧地要把它們禁錮在懷中,因為人啊人,怎么突然之間會涌起這樣一種對毫無抗拒之力的弱者的占有欲,可鄙的,可悲的,又是無奈的,辛酸的,而我就成了Humbert the Miserable。